What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
How do I become mentally strong?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Can you list every album you have ever listened to?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
What is the best interracial stories that you hear or know and want to share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Would you read them together?
What is the best music album of all time?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
What's your wildest & weirdest fantasy?
Any that are a turn off?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
What type of sex do women prefer, oral, anal, or vaginal?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Any straight men had a gay experience in the past? What was it and how did you feel?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Did you swallow cum the first time you sucked a penis?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Family Relation Age Play
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
*** Questions About Me ***
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
If you win, what will you make them do?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
How old are you? Male or Female?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
39~ What are your love languages?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Nothing too Serious
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
If yes, what?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
29- How superstitious are you?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Please share Did you stop?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
What is your favorite position? Why?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Any that are a turn off?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
52~ What are your hobbies?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…